Erotic Massage General Info

 

Despite what many people tend to believe, erotic massages have been around for thousands of years and although far more widely used in the East, were not uncommon to the European content either. The main goal of an erotic massage is to stimulate the erogenous zones and lead to sexual arousal.

How is an erotic massage performed?

Due to its very intimate character, the erotic massages are typically performed from one partner to another, but can be done by professionals as well. Although still looked down on in many countries, their benefits are enormous! Their main goal is not to deliver sexual gratification, although this is a welcomed and expected outcome of the sessions as well. The great advantage of the erotic massage is that there are no certain or specific expectations to be met, which is what happens during a sexual act. In the massage sessions, the receiver's main task is to learn how to relax and let go, enjoy the sensations, and take as much as possible from the massage. This is not always easy, especially for men since something this intimate can leave them vulnerable and make them feel uneasy; however, this state could be overcome with practice and with mastering a few deep-breathing techniques. Once the giver and the recover work in harmony, the receiver will learn how to "open up" his or her senses and enjoy the gentle and soft touch to the fullest.

Unlike the sports and the Swedish massaging, the strokes and the touches during the erotic massages are soft and there are no "barred" areas. In fact, the areas, which are completely ignored during the traditional massages, are the areas that receive the most attention during an erotic massage. Although these are definitely the genital areas, other erogenous zones are touched and caressed as well and massaging the ears, behind the knees, and other parts of the body that can lead to sexual arousal is perfectly admissible. find more info tantric massage

The benefits of the erotic massage have been recognized even by the mainstream medicine and the techniques are often used in sexual therapies. The main aim in such cases is to increase the libido, to teach men to control their ejaculation and overcome premature ejaculation, and to improve couples' sex life. The therapist could also teach partners how to incorporate an erotic massage into their foreplay or use it as an excellent element of their sex life.

This form of massaging could take some time to master and although the giver is the one that has to learn the various strokes, practices and techniques, the receiver needs to learn how to enjoy it as well. It is well known that during the traditional massage, the masseur would go to great extent to avoid sexual arousal, while this is perfectly normal and accepted during the erotic massage. This makes is much more beneficial as it allows the receiver to completely surrender to his feelings, enjoy the soft touch, and respond to the reactions of his body without any feelings of guilt or remorse!